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I picked this picture so you can see Brantley without a costume. But, I also want to draw your attention to the mom dressed in pink. Don't you think that costume is a little inappropriate for a family Halloween party? She wasn't leaving much to the imagination. Then today was Chuck E. Cheese. Let me tell you what I hate about Chuckys. Parents let their kids run amuck and Brantley gets run over. Brantley dropped his tokens and his classmate and another kid helped him pick them up while helping themselves to some of his tokens. Brantley can be playing a game and another kid will come up and start playing it and not letting Brantley play. It's quite annoying. At any rate, Brantley actually hugged Chucky this time and danced with everyone. Check out Brantley's moves.

I'm not really sure how you grade kindergarteners or even what standards should be imposed. But, I think this is a pretty good report. Brantley brings home a behavior calendar each day and each day it has been stamped "Terrific Job" until today. Today, he got in trouble. For......are you ready.....talking at rest time. Imagine that. Growing up my report cards would say "Talks to much." Guess we know where he got that from. I feel like he has finally gotten more comfortable with kindergarten. He's been acting more like himself and has made some friends. He's even invited to a birthday party in a couple of weeks. He was so excited the day he got the invitation. He still doesn't like the after-care program so I've dropped it. It actually has worked out pretty well as far as me getting home to meet the bus and it saves me even more money. It's actually really nice to be able to watch him get on the bus and be waiting for him when he gets home.

Screening went very well. The teacher came out and called Brantley's name. He got up and went right to her and said hello. No issues. That was a relief. So, Brantley did his part. I had to fill out this questionnaire. There were questions on there about what his interests are, what my concerns about him are, etc. It also asked what I expected from the kindergarten program. I left it blank. I haven't a clue what I expect. He already knows more that I would expect him to know at this point, so what do I put down? It also asked what I would do to help them and help my child learn. I left that blank to. Jeez. I'm willing to do whatever is necessary to help my child. What is it that you want me to answer here. They'll probably think I'm an idiot but to me you can't answer questions like that on two lines. I'm probably giving them the misconception that I'm easy going, won't give them a hard time and don't expect much. Not good, because I will probably be one of the most over bearing mothers they have. :)
I finally took Brantley for his annual pictures. This is probably the last time I will do this since he will start having school pictures. All of the pictures were so good, I couldn't decide what to get so I ended up with way too many pictures. And, since I bought so many pictures I got the whole session on a CD. I put them on the gallery website to share. Let me know your favorites and if I have them I'll send them. The printed ones have been cropped, centered, etc.
I had my hands on it a couple times but I was too afraid that I might hurt it. I was amazed how tiny they really are. And, this one wasn't very colorful. Apparently, it is a black chinned hummingbird. At one point it landed on the bar that the chain from the opener runs through. I got on the ladder and set the feeder right next to it and it wouldn't get on it and eat. I tried to nudge it but it just cried. Not it's normal chirp, but literally a cry. I think the poor thing was about to starve. I gave up after about a hour of trying. I can't believe it didn't die. Finally, I opened the door and hung the feeder on the red handle. I figured, that's what attracted it in there, maybe it would find the feeder that way. After I went inside, I got another idea. I went in the back yard and got the hanger for the off insect repellent lantern and took it around to the garage. I was going to try to put the feeder on it and put it just outside the garage. As I was trying to get the lantern off, the hummingbird landed on the feeder. I just stood there but I didn't want to scare it. Finally, I moved away and went in the house through the back door. I peaked through the door to the garage and watched as the bird landed on the feeder again and finally flew out! YES!!! I closed the garage and put the feeder outside. Hopefully she will find it. I'm sure she's starving.
Here he is wearing one of his presents.
So, Grandma hands me a bag today and says Brantley has to earn this. I say Ok, what does he have to do? He has to keep his room clean for a week and he can have it. By the way, Roger says the new Superman movie is good and we should take Brantley. We might have to do that in the next few weeks.
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Well, today was the family birthday party. Each year we get the family together for Brantley's birthday. This year we are having 2 parties: the family party and a party with his school friends. So we all got together today for BBQ and birthday cake. I know we should grill hamburgers or something, but BBQ is just so easy. You've never seen a child so excited before. Brantley could hardly contain himself. He loves having all the family around, but he wouldn't be a kid if he wasn't excited about presents. So here he is before he blew out the candles on his cake. It's hard to believe he's going to be 5 years old. And here he is opening presents.
Some of the words out of his mouth were Awesome, Cool, Finally, and my personal favorite - This rocks. Happy Birthday Brantley!

Next step is to get his closet organized. I have a plan, I just have to get in the mood to do it when I have the time to do it.
While we were rearranging, Brantley was helping. He kept asking if he could put Hermie in his room. I figured, why now. I told him he has to make sure he had food and water now.
Here's Hermie's new spot in the house.
He did really well, but I think he was paying a little too much attention to me on the side of the pool. I didn't get in because I figured he really wouldn't listen, so I watched from the side. He did really well and is fearlessly jumping in the pool now - without his ring! Here is a picture after we got home and he already changed into his sleepy clothes. He should sleep good tonight, if I can get him in bed!